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Anger, frustration, and emotional blowups are usually treated as problems to eliminate. Becky Kennedy argues they’re signals of something more precise: a missing skill.

She reframes emotional regulation not as a personality trait or moral failing, but as a capacity that’s learned through relationships.

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